What you need to know NOW about breastfeeding!
Many women think that breastfeeding is easy.  All you do it put the baby up to your breast and the baby starts sucking…right?  Well not exactly.

Breastfeeding is a learning process for both mom and baby.  Baby start sucking while in the womb, so they know how to suck (usually) but need some help in flaring their lips and not sucking on their tongues.  Most mothers have not had someone sucking on their nipples for extended periods of time, so the learning comes from getting used to that and positioning baby for comfort and maximum stimulation of the breasts.   
Breastfeeding has discomfort in the beginning for sure, but well worth sticking with it.  After the first couple of weeks, the pain subsides, and it is nothing but pure enjoyment.  I believe, the bond that takes place while nursing your baby can not be replicated.  There is just something special knowing that you are the only one your child wants when he or she is hungry, and your body is providing his or her complete nutrition.
   
No matter if it is your first or your fifth, the first 2-3 weeks is the hardest for breastfeeding.   I personally went through crazy pain, bleeding, cracked, infected nipples, engorged breasts making it impossible for my baby to latch, thrush, mastitis and needing a shield while nursing.  But I would do it all again for the pure joy that came after the first couple weeks.  

Find someone that will support you on this journey and give advice when needed.  There are many lactation consultants, doulas, midwives, nurses, and doctors that are willing to help if your desire is to continue breastfeeding.  I encourage you to seek them out when you need the extra help.  

Even with my fifth baby, I was meeting with my lactation consultant, crying in her office, begging for help as an L&D nurse.  It is ok to need help, many mothers do.  This does not mean you are a failure, it means you are a mama that strives to do what is best for your baby, even if that means sacrificing your comfort for a short time.  

I had a woman that helped me with breastfeeding my first and I know I would not have continued if it was not for her help.  I want to pass this help on to you! I am available to answer questions or just talk about what your concerns are.  My website gives you 15 minutes to chat with me about anything pregnancy, birth or postpartum related at no charge!  I want to see you succeed just as much as you do!  Do not give up, it will get better.  I promise!  

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Meet Rebekah Clay

 
Knowledge is Power!

All my life I have wanted to be a mom, as most little girls do.  I dreamed of that perfect day when they placed him or her on my chest and I instantly fell in love.  As the day got closer to delivery of my first, I started getting NERVOUS, FEARFUL of what might happen, SCARED that I did not know all the answers, my sense of control was disappearing.  Everything I knew was from family and friends who gave their birth stories.  I was so excited to meet my baby but scared all at the same time.  I was just supposed to go in a trust the nurse and doctor that I did not even know with my life and the life of my child???   Um no!  This was not me, but I did not know what else to do.

I had nurses and doctors disagreeing on my care and I didn’t know enough to say how I felt, or what was right for me.  I felt helpless. I felt alone.  I started doubting if I could even be a good mother because I knew nothing about bringing a baby into this world, breastfeeding or calming a baby (Geesh I could not even calm myself down).   After 3 days in the hospital I finally met my son. It was the most amazing, breathtaking moment.  

After my first child, I knew I wanted to be a labor and delivery nurse and help calm the nerves and provide education to mothers preparing for delivery.  So that is what I have done for the last 12 years! I give women the resources to be able to calm their fears, be more knowledgeable about the labor and delivery process, and be able to make informed decisions instead of just following along with whatever the hospital tells them. I empower women to trust themselves and their bodies.  

Did you know that you could tell the doctor “NO”?  What about telling the nurse what you want for your delivery and making it happen, instead of just going along with what they want?  Your labor nurse might be in her first day of labor or her 1,000th you never know.  Take charge of your birth and family now!

How many times have you said, “If only I knew somebody that really understood what goes on during labor & delivery and the truth about how to deliver safely.”?  Have you every thought “I wish I had someone in my life to tell me what to do next in labor.”?  You NOW know someone…ME!!!! 

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